This week has been a great week for me.. Again, i learned a lot of things and realized a lot as well.. And i got a job.. At least i know what are my plans for these few months break... I believe that this job will be even better than the previous one.. Most importantly, there is a sense of security in this job, at least you know you won't be cheated..

Now i am sharing what i have learned.. What does real men mean to you?? What is your definition of a real man?? Must he be macho, crude or fierce?? A real man is someone who is strong and everyone is afraid of?? What does real men really mean???

A real man is a man of authority.. He speaks people listen! He is also someone who directs, protects and corrects.. He knows how to direct a situation, protect his love ones and correct his and other people mistakes.. He is a person of destiny, he knows what he wants in life..

He is a person who says what he means and means what he says.. A person who keeps his words and promises.. Everything that he says he will do, even if he regrets it, or inconveniences him, or causes him something..A person who is double minded will never do great things! His words are his bond.. He puts his words above his name. and makes promises that he will definitely fulfill..A person whose words people can depend on and will never doubt what he says.. Of course a person with good reputation..

A real man is also a man with integrity, responsibility and resilience.. He will never push his blames on other people for his own mistakes, he always admits his mistakes and tries to salvage the situation.. He will not push his responsibility to other people.. He will never lie!! White lie, black lie, green lie is still a lie!! Many people like to say, ' i lie because i don't want to hurt you' or i lie because i had no choice'.. etc.. This is only an excuse to cover up for their lies, instead they lie once more!! Being truthful is something very difficult, once you can do that you are a real man!

In conclusion, you can be macho, strong and fierce, but not considered a real man.. You can also be someone who is girly and fashionable but is considered as a real man.. Because it is not on the outside it is on the inside! But it is often so difficult to keep to the principles...

Kok tiong | 10/14/2009 05:50:00 PM