New issues of relationship!!
Why couple can fall out of love so easily?? Actually no couple plans to fall out of love when they started falling in love.. The reason why couple fall out of love so easily, is cause of a simple fact 'disappointment'.. The relationship that they imagine is so much different from reality.. Many couples(teens) was so on fire for the relationship only for a period of time, but after that they lost the fire.. Then?? They go separate ways..
We have to understand that understanding your spouse is key factor, no matter what they like, dislike, habits and everything, you have to know, because true love is when there is no secrets kept between both of you.. Even it is something embarrassing you have to share as well. If after hearing your embarrassing stuff in your life, family, past and whatever, they choose to break up, than let it be, cause that is not true love at all, even if you hold on, it will still slip off. Don't think that since he/she never ask, than you don't have to say much. You have to tell him/her automatically.. When you both know the tiny and bits about one another, this can benefit both of your conversation as well, so that you don't run out of topic to chat..
Another thing is speak your mind, whatever you want to say just shoot it out, don't keep it in your heart, your spouse will only know where they did wrong or what areas they need to improve only when you tell them.. Don't expect them to discover themselves, remember you are one another mirror!!
People says that quarrel is common between a couple, it is rubbish. You quarrel because you both have conflicts, is having conflicts a positive or negative thing?? Less quarrel, more love.. No quarrel, forever love!! Don't think it is impossible between you and him/her, you just have to make an effort to find the possibility.. Even if you don't love him/her at all now, but if you are willing to make a effort and try it out, than nothing is impossible.. Always talk to one another and share every single joy or problems that you have.
Those who are attached let this be your last, those who are not let your next partner be your last! It takes both hands to clap, relationship is the same, always sort things out together.. For teens, don't be so anxious to fall into a relationship now, cause we are lack of experience and we still can't control our emotion well, unless you are very confident that it will bear fruits.. How successful in your relationship is not only determine by how much you love on another, is the effort, time you put in and how creative you are in maintaining the relationship..

Kok tiong | 4/20/2009 10:15:00 PM